3 Things You Must Have to Get The Man & The Money


There are two kinds of people in this world those who have it all and those who get whatever is left over. Me? I was unsure of myself, never going for the kind of guy I always wanted, until suddenly with age and more emotional wear and tear those men we no longer interested in me or available. There are two kinds of dater's in this world, the confidence, love-savvy gal who knows her worth and the overlooked or undervalued gal who feels used up. I have a beautiful, powerful and spiritual friend … [Read more...]

You’re Worth Loving!


By Maryjane KapteynMy message is strong and persistent: ‘You’re Worth Loving'.Life radically and beautifully changes when you know your worth, without it the COST is too great.If I had felt WORTHY walking into my adulthood, all the success, happiness and love I desired would not have eluded me. I would not have endured so much disappointment and pain. I would not have lost my money, my time, my well being, my health, my happiness and my self-esteem hoping a man would love me.I would not have … [Read more...]

Nice Gal Secrets to Never Feeling Powerless With Men

How to Feel Powerful & Confident With Men

By Maryjane KapteynDo you work hard to get a relationship and to keep it going? If so, I know all too well how that feels because TRYING at love always backfired in my relationship past. Trying hard took up all my thoughts and energy, and left me unfulfilled and exhausted. It made me feel angry, lost, resentful, confused, needy and desperate because I never got enough in return from a man to feel good.I discovered that being a big-hearted nice gal isn’t exactly the problem, but giving too … [Read more...]

What Wayne Dyer Taught Me About Love

Wayne Dyer Quote

I celebrate a beautiful soul, loving man, and wise teacher in Wayne Dyer who passed away on August 29, 2015. I owe so much of my growth to the infectious, genuine and wise teachings of Wayne Dyer. I cannot even begin to express my heartfelt gratitude to this creative, inspirational and joyful man. In tribute, here are 11 of my favourite Wayne Dyer quotes on happiness, self-worth and love. “Most people are searching for happiness outside themselves. That’s a fundamental mistake. Happiness … [Read more...]

Shop, Don’t Sell: Be Choosy to Find The Right Man


Yes gals, please shop until you drop. Shop until you’ve exhausted the options, but not your credit card. I’m talking about no cost shopping for men. Being selective and choosy before you buy. Buying what fits perfectly and ignites feelings happiness and beauty. (Remember, no milk until he’s bought the store).Shopping looks like not rushing, not trying too hard, not falling for potential, not settling and not selling yourself short. Selling is when you’re trying to convince a man to buy … [Read more...]

Nice Gal Beliefs That Block Love


Intellectually you know loving you is important. Like, exercise, drinking plenty of water, resting and get plenty of sleep. If it’s one of the essential things that keep you balanced, healthy and emotionally thriving, why is last the list of things to do?Here’s what may be holding you back from loving you and attracting the relationship you want.You Feel Guilty Putting You FirstYou naturally give more than you receive, so putting you first feels wrong, selfish or vain. By giving to you, you … [Read more...]

Q&A- Should I Wait or Should I Go?


Q&A - Should I Wait or Should I Go? Hi Maryjane I need your advice. I don’t know if I'm doing the right thing or not. My ex and I broke up towards the end of March. He was caught cheating by my friends. We broke up and didn’t talk for 2 months. We started talking again end of May about trying to patch things up and maybe getting back together. He said he's not ready right now cause he needs to work on some personal issues i.e going back to school, family dynamics etc. These issues … [Read more...]