What Wayne Dyer Taught Me About Love

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I celebrate a beautiful soul, loving man, and wise teacher in Wayne Dyer who passed away on August 29, 2015. I owe so much of my growth to the infectious, genuine and wise teachings of Wayne Dyer. I cannot even begin to express my heartfelt gratitude to this creative, inspirational and joyful man. In tribute, here are 11 of my favourite Wayne Dyer quotes on happiness, self-worth and love. “Most people are searching for happiness outside themselves. That’s a fundamental mistake. Happiness … [Read more...]

Stop Struggling In Search of Love… Embrace Your Joy

One of my favorite love coaches Martha Beck talks about the path to finding your purpose as a practice of “going straight for the joy”. I believe that finding your Soulmate one works the same way. Call it the secret or some new agey thing but the vibration or feelings we send out draw ‘like’ experiences to us like magnets. It’s not based on fairness or how deserving you are or how bad you want it. In fact, the universe wants to give you a perfectly suited partner but you need to … [Read more...]

Hey Nice Gal! STILL SINGLE? Choose A Man Who is Open to Love

 Choose a man open to love. Sounds obvious, doesn't it? Well I'll be the first to admit that I have altered, changed, obsessed and thought about how to act around a man so he wouldn’t reject me. I would wonder HOW I could show him what a great gal I was (worth catching)...be NICE, attractive, interesting etc. so he would want to get to know me and patient and understanding if he wasn’t ready to commit or didn’t know how he felt about me. Another way of looking at this is: I didn’t … [Read more...]

Nice Gal & The Bad Boy: Why You Get Hooked Part Two

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Part Two Have you ever wasted your TIME and big heart on an unavailable man who prefers to keep things “casual” rather than create a real, lasting and loving partnership with you? The psychological appeal to the bad boy is that you never know if he likes you or if he’ll stick around. What you experience as excitement and the thrill of infatuation or romance, I call, anxiety, uncertainty and being on edge. Never knowing where you stand triggers a primal reaction to please him, give to … [Read more...]

Why You Don’t Need To Love Yourself Perfectly to Find Love

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Excerpts from my book: "Falling In Love With Me".   I know you know this - you've heard it a thousand times - "you need to love yourself before anyone else will love you." And this isn't entirely true. Love finds a way. Love is your constant teacher in every moment of reflection, interaction and self-action. I can count numerous instances when love showed up, even when I or another person didn't feel completely worthy, deserving, safe, trusting or open.  Thank goodness! If you wait until … [Read more...]

Needing, not Needy!

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We are women; we give, share, create, achieve, beautify, nurture, relate, communicate, connect and care-take. And we’re busy! Whew! We get hungry: hungry for rest, for understanding, for comfort, for shelter, for nourishment, for reassurance, for softness, for yummy good feelings in our bodies and for unconditional love. And when we get it...sigh. Aaaahhhh! So when did wanting to be listened to, cared for, supported, understood, accepted or to be touched with tenderness, love and affection … [Read more...]