The Hook that Causes Nice Gals to Choose Unavailable Men

Man and woman in sexual clothes

           Have you ever wondered why you attract emotionally unavailable, flawed, needy, insecure or broken men?Being nice is the source of your attraction. The reason you behave too nice isn’t your fault. In fact, it likely feels natural to be nice, a part of your identity and personality. Same holds true for the kind of men you feel attracted to – you can’t help it- right?What if I said you could, over time, re-wire your … [Read more...]

Hey Nice Gal! STILL SINGLE? Choose A Man Who is Open to Love

 Choose a man open to love. Sounds obvious, doesn't it? Well I'll be the first to admit that I have altered, changed, obsessed and thought about how to act around a man so he wouldn’t reject me. I would wonder HOW I could show him what a great gal I was (worth catching)...be NICE, attractive, interesting etc. so he would want to get to know me and patient and understanding if he wasn’t ready to commit or didn’t know how he felt about me. Another way of looking at this is: I didn’t … [Read more...]