Oops, I Did It Again (Nice Gal Mistake)


(this is personal)Oops, I did it again. Despite my undeniable spiritual connection to my partner, I unconsciously chose a man who wanted me to take care of him and fix his problems. I walked into a bit of a blended family, post-divorce mess. Yikes. Which means… part of me was a MESS as well. RELATIONSHIPS ARE A MIRROR. YOU ATTRACT WHAT YOU ARE, NOT WHAT YOU WANT.There’s no blame here, I take complete responsibility for attracting from my nice gal pattern. Plus, admitting all the ways, I … [Read more...]

Happy 2015 Manifest Love Ritual

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Happy 2015!  I sit here filled with awe and gratitude for YOU… the TLC community that has been witness to and/or participating in the ‘No More Nice Gal’ Movement. My goal has always been to support you anyway I can.  Watching you break old patterns and find love makes me feel excited. Your joy brings me joy! Each time I work with you, whether it’s in person or virtually – I know what a gift you’re giving me. I realize that you’re allowing me to hold space for your greatness. I … [Read more...]

Are You Too Nice? The Cost of Being Agreeable

BigHeart’s are by nature agreeable, kind, accommodating, loving, generous, optimistic, trusting and helpful. they're softhearted and prone to random acts of altruistic kindness without need for reward. All lovely and likeable qualities until... ...Conflict arises, compromise or over-giving builds up resentment, your trust is betrayed or choices need to be made that can’t please everyone. You know I love you, but too much of the ‘nice gal (or guy) behavior turns out to not be so good. … [Read more...]