How To Find Your Perfect Relationship-Ready Man


You ARE a good catch. Being sweet, kind, generous, nurturing and understanding is what men want… …Until you go to far and give so much of yourself, he values and respects you less. Being too nice is a big mistake when it comes to dating and relationships...and THAT is why some awesome man hasn't snagged you. The good news is that I know what those mistakes are, and I can teach you how to fix them. In fact, if you actually follow my advice and the step-by-step plan I've laid out in … [Read more...]

3 Things You Must Have to Get The Man & The Money


There are two kinds of people in this world those who have it all and those who get whatever is left over. Me? I was unsure of myself, never going for the kind of guy I always wanted, until suddenly with age and more emotional wear and tear those men we no longer interested in me or available. There are two kinds of dater's in this world, the confidence, love-savvy gal who knows her worth and the overlooked or undervalued gal who feels used up. I have a beautiful, powerful and spiritual friend … [Read more...]

You’re Worth Loving!


By Maryjane KapteynMy message is strong and persistent: ‘You’re Worth Loving'.Life radically and beautifully changes when you know your worth, without it the COST is too great.If I had felt WORTHY walking into my adulthood, all the success, happiness and love I desired would not have eluded me. I would not have endured so much disappointment and pain. I would not have lost my money, my time, my well being, my health, my happiness and my self-esteem hoping a man would love me.I would not have … [Read more...]

What Wayne Dyer Taught Me About Love

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I celebrate a beautiful soul, loving man, and wise teacher in Wayne Dyer who passed away on August 29, 2015. I owe so much of my growth to the infectious, genuine and wise teachings of Wayne Dyer. I cannot even begin to express my heartfelt gratitude to this creative, inspirational and joyful man. In tribute, here are 11 of my favourite Wayne Dyer quotes on happiness, self-worth and love. “Most people are searching for happiness outside themselves. That’s a fundamental mistake. Happiness … [Read more...]

Get the Love & Man You Deserve

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Acceptance, acknowledgment, support, caring, excitement, happiness, ease, calm and growth are all the things real, authentic love is made of. I want you to have this and more. Here’s my mini-deserve-love-list. Go for a man who: Makes you feel special. Listens and empathizes when you feel hurt. Gives you his time and attention. Wants to wake up to you every single day. Does what it takes so you can create a beautiful life together. Is unwavering in his faithfulness and commitment. Loves … [Read more...]

13 Love Bombs & Love Worthy Printable

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I'm expecting big things for you! Especially big love!  It’s time to let go of any fears or thoughts that tell you your doing enough, having enough or being enough.  It’s time to LOVE without fear, without heartache, without disappointment and without uncertainty. So, I hope you’ll join me in making 2015 your personal year of love: allowing love, being love, giving love and sharing love.  So today, I’m going to drop 13 love bombs on you in the hopes you’ll find it easier to love … [Read more...]

Sex-Worthy or Love-Worthy 2: How to Avoid Falling Victim to Pick-Up Artist Tactics

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Julien Blanc has garnered negative media attention for his misogynistic pick-up artist techniques teaching men ‘how to’ manipulate, objectify, humiliate, emotional abuse and sexually assault women in order to get laid. He’s not alone. Many pick-up artists teach men a brand of confidence training that is opportunistic and manipulative with the goal of getting a woman to bed, not securing a relationship. Call it the game, tricks, conning, and flat out lying…. Here’s how to avoid … [Read more...]

Sex-Worthy or Love-Worthy?

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Why Julien Blanc’s Pick-Up Artist Techniques Are Harmful to Men By Maryjane Kapteyn Julien Blanc has garnered negative media attention for his misogynistic pick-up artist techniques teaching men ‘how to’ manipulate, objectify, humiliate, emotional abuse and sexually assault women in order to get laid. He calls his brand of confidence becoming ‘sex-worthy’ or f-able. But rather than teaching men to claim their masculinity, commit to a solid purpose, present their best assets and act … [Read more...]

Stop Struggling In Search of Love… Embrace Your Joy

One of my favorite love coaches Martha Beck talks about the path to finding your purpose as a practice of “going straight for the joy”. I believe that finding your Soulmate one works the same way. Call it the secret or some new agey thing but the vibration or feelings we send out draw ‘like’ experiences to us like magnets. It’s not based on fairness or how deserving you are or how bad you want it. In fact, the universe wants to give you a perfectly suited partner but you need to … [Read more...]

Why You Don’t Need To Love Yourself Perfectly to Find Love


Excerpts from my book: "Falling In Love With Me".   I know you know this - you've heard it a thousand times - "you need to love yourself before anyone else will love you." And this isn't entirely true. Love finds a way. Love is your constant teacher in every moment of reflection, interaction and self-action. I can count numerous instances when love showed up, even when I or another person didn't feel completely worthy, deserving, safe, trusting or open.  Thank goodness! If you wait until … [Read more...]