Q&A: Do I Choose The Safe Guy Or A Relationship That Thrills Me?

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 Hello Maryjane,I caught your interview with Aliki Kouroupis and LOVED it. My biggest takeaway and favorite part was the difference between being kind verse nice. Particularly, how there is much we can give to ourselves, but other things we can only receive through a love relationship. that brings me to my question.  I'm a 35 content single, who enjoys my space, freedom, and solitude.  Still I would love to "meet the right person" and be in a healthy committed relationship. I am bi … [Read more...]

Q&A: My Boyfriend No Longer Cares

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Hi, Maryjane,My name is Yen, and I am from San Jose, California. My boyfriend and I have been together close to two years. I remember at the beginning of the relationship he was so sweet, kind, and caring to me. But I notice that ever since he got a new job and has been working overtime, he hardly cares about my feelings anymore. I tried many times to tell him how I feel, but he gets angry at me, ignores my feelings, and calls me mean names, which hurts me more. I really love my boyfriend very … [Read more...]

‘The Energy of Dating’: How Loving You, Attracts Love.

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It’s said you need to slow down to speed up, connect within to know what you truly want and love you before finding love. It’s true. 80% of how we show up is energetic and only 20% relates to what we say or do. That’s because how we feel translates into everything- our body language, our words and our behaviours. More than anything we say or do, people are responded to our energy.This is why dating techniques only get you so far. You can do and say all the right things on a date, but … [Read more...]

You Gotta Want It, Chickie!

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 Do you want to lose weight, grow in wealth, get fit, elevate your career or find love?Well, you gotta want it.I know saying you have to want something may sound obvious, but here’s what I mean.Let's say you have a goal to lose weight.You must want to the lose the weight and become that skinny person more than you want to eat, more than you want the emotional comfort food provides you. You must want to lose weight so intently, that you are utterly undeterred and entirely focused on that … [Read more...]

Q&A Dropped Like A Bad Habit.

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Hi Maryjane,I'm a lost soul & stranger to most and even myself. I was in a committed, engaged relationship for five years that went into a toxic state of constant arguments; trust issues, miscommunication, and dependency. We loved hard & fought hard. I fixated on past issues that never let us move forward. He encouraged me to work on myself, and so I moved out of town hoping distance would help. Instead, I made work a priority and didn't treat him with dignity or respect. I yelled & … [Read more...]

Fall In Love With Reality, Not Potential

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I love a good love story!Like all great love stories, couples who last wanted the same things, are ready for love and share mutual feelings of respect and adoration.Their love, compatibility and readiness are completely mutual!If we look at this example – the formula for choosing a relationship is really quite simple.She’s ready, into you and you want the same things– it’s a go.She’s not ready but into you- it’s not a go. He’s ready, into to you, and you share a vision of your … [Read more...]

Q&A: He’s Got Me, Now He’s lazy. What do I do to get my man to pay attention to me?

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My Man is LAZY.  What do I do to get him to pay attention to me?My man and I dated 3 years and living together 2 years exactly. 4 months ago he proposed, I was so happy. Anyway, we work opposite shifts so we hardly get time to do things together as a couple. However, the off days and free time he does have, he spends sleeping or watch's television. It’s been months since he has suggested or made any effort to steal my heart or show me how much he loves me. His very caring and sweet, but I a … [Read more...]

13 Love Bombs & Love Worthy Printable

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I'm expecting big things for you! Especially big love!  It’s time to let go of any fears or thoughts that tell you your doing enough, having enough or being enough.  It’s time to LOVE without fear, without heartache, without disappointment and without uncertainty. So, I hope you’ll join me in making 2015 your personal year of love: allowing love, being love, giving love and sharing love.  So today, I’m going to drop 13 love bombs on you in the hopes you’ll find it easier to love … [Read more...]

50 Shades of Losing You In Him

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“Fifty shades of Grey” by E.L James touted as 2014 mommy porn speaks to the universal desire to surrender, let go and be lead by a powerful man. Under close scrutiny, rather than being an inspiring work of female sexual empowerment, this erotic novel is really the textbook for 50 ways to lose yourself in a man. If you find yourself falling head over heels in love to the point that you give up parts of you to feel alive, desired and loved… this blog is for you.I’ll share the missteps and … [Read more...]

50 Shades of a Toxic Relationship

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Fifty Shades of Grey hits theaters today and let’s be honest who doesn’t want to see Jamie Dornan steaming up the screen– hhhheeellllo HOT!While the idea of losing control and losing yourself in a man makes for a great fantasy – the real life version is not so hot or glamorous.In fact, it can be downright degrading, soul-sucking and damaging.I know first hand. I fell for a man who appeared to be everything I wanted and lavished me with an unreal amount of attention and affection, … [Read more...]