The Hook that Causes Nice Gals to Choose Unavailable Men

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           Have you ever wondered why you attract emotionally unavailable, flawed, needy, insecure or broken men?Being nice is the source of your attraction. The reason you behave too nice isn’t your fault. In fact, it likely feels natural to be nice, a part of your identity and personality. Same holds true for the kind of men you feel attracted to – you can’t help it- right?What if I said you could, over time, re-wire your … [Read more...]

The Anatomy of A Nice Gal Webinar Audio + PDF Handout

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I love him. Is there hope for us?

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Hi Maryjane!I’m currently in a long distance relationship with a guy I’ve known half my life. He and I reconnected six months ago and immediately hit it off.However, he is currently in the final stages of a long, contested divorce, plus a young child I’ve never met. I simply adore this man; he has all the wonderful qualities I’ve been looking for in someone and vice versa but it has been gut-wrenching to see him process the pain of the divorce alone from so far away, not being able to do … [Read more...]

Oops, I Did It Again (Nice Gal Mistake)

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(this is personal)Oops, I did it again. Despite my undeniable spiritual connection to my partner, I unconsciously chose a man who wanted me to take care of him and fix his problems. I walked into a bit of a blended family, post-divorce mess. Yikes. Which means… part of me was a MESS as well. RELATIONSHIPS ARE A MIRROR. YOU ATTRACT WHAT YOU ARE, NOT WHAT YOU WANT.There’s no blame here, I take complete responsibility for attracting from my nice gal pattern. Plus, admitting all the ways, I … [Read more...]

What Wayne Dyer Taught Me About Love

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I celebrate a beautiful soul, loving man, and wise teacher in Wayne Dyer who passed away on August 29, 2015. I owe so much of my growth to the infectious, genuine and wise teachings of Wayne Dyer. I cannot even begin to express my heartfelt gratitude to this creative, inspirational and joyful man. In tribute, here are 11 of my favourite Wayne Dyer quotes on happiness, self-worth and love. “Most people are searching for happiness outside themselves. That’s a fundamental mistake. Happiness … [Read more...]

Shop, Don’t Sell: Be Choosy to Find The Right Man

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Yes gals, please shop until you drop. Shop until you’ve exhausted the options, but not your credit card. I’m talking about no cost shopping for men. Being selective and choosy before you buy. Buying what fits perfectly and ignites feelings happiness and beauty. (Remember, no milk until he’s bought the store).Shopping looks like not rushing, not trying too hard, not falling for potential, not settling and not selling yourself short. Selling is when you’re trying to convince a man to buy … [Read more...]

Get the Love & Man You Deserve

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Acceptance, acknowledgment, support, caring, excitement, happiness, ease, calm and growth are all the things real, authentic love is made of. I want you to have this and more. Here’s my mini-deserve-love-list. Go for a man who: Makes you feel special. Listens and empathizes when you feel hurt. Gives you his time and attention. Wants to wake up to you every single day. Does what it takes so you can create a beautiful life together. Is unwavering in his faithfulness and commitment. Loves … [Read more...]

25 Self-Love Quotes

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  You deserve to be loved, cherished, adored, cared for, listen to and supported. You deserve to feel relaxed, free, purposeful, cherished, adored, and excited, at ease, stimulated and happy. You deserve to feel acknowledged and accepted.  I challenge you to become your own best friend and treat yourself BIG JUICY LOVE. Self-love opens and heals your heart, allowing you to be a good receiver of love, share your deepest feelings, risk believing in yourself more, find the strength to … [Read more...]

Nice Gal Beliefs That Block Love

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Intellectually you know loving you is important. Like, exercise, drinking plenty of water, resting and get plenty of sleep. If it’s one of the essential things that keep you balanced, healthy and emotionally thriving, why is last the list of things to do?Here’s what may be holding you back from loving you and attracting the relationship you want.You Feel Guilty Putting You FirstYou naturally give more than you receive, so putting you first feels wrong, selfish or vain. By giving to you, you … [Read more...]

Self-Love Fun Permission Slip Printable

I'm expecting big things for you! Especially big love!  You deserve to be loved, cherished, adored, cared for, listen to and supported. You deserve to feel relaxed, free, purposeful, cherished, adored, and excited, at ease, stimulated and happy. You deserve to feel acknowledged and accepted. It starts with you.   I challenge you to become your own best friend and treat yourself BIG JUICY LOVE. Why? Because self-love opens and heals your heart, allowing you to be a good receiver of love, … [Read more...]