Shop, Don’t Sell: Be Choosy to Find The Right Man

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Yes gals, please shop until you drop. Shop until you’ve exhausted the options, but not your credit card. I’m talking about no cost shopping for men. Being selective and choosy before you buy. Buying what fits perfectly and ignites feelings happiness and beauty. (Remember, no milk until he’s bought the store).

Shopping looks like not rushing, not trying too hard, not falling for potential, not settling and not selling yourself short. Selling is when you’re trying to convince a man to buy (to validate your worth, to make you feel safe, special or secure and hoping he’ll chose you).

Let’s flip the paradigm to choosing the man worthy of you. So, you don’t make the mistake of overvaluing him while undervaluing yourself.

Selling is when you take a marketing approach to be the most attractive package by putting yourself on display (price negotiable).

Yes, I want you to be and feel your best!!! Be irresistible, be ravishing, be gorgeous, smart, delicious, and amazing but do it for you. Love you because it makes you feel good, and it’s part of living a fulfilled life with no need to impress a man or rival the competition. (Because with the right guy, there’s no one else but you).

Shift your attitude from SELLING, TO SHOPPING. Shop, as if you had an all-access pass to a Sunday brunch with one rule. You must choose the food you’re prepared to eat the rest of your life everyday and at every meal. The stakes are high, you need to make it count. Choose nutrient-rich foods and steering away from calorie-rich foods, that while alluring and addictive, offer no substance (kinda like men). Choosing not only what excites, but satisfies.

Take your time, visit many different stores, compare online, qualify the product and get the best buy designer quality you can, bypass Walmart.

Your job isn’t to get lulled in the appearance of abundance in the maze of choices, or lack if you don’t yet identify the quality amongst quantity. Instead, know inside and out, what you need from a man to be deeply fulfilled and patiently wait until you discover your high-quality, taste-bud ravishing choice that holds just a touch of sweetness. The equivalent of your green juice with blueberry or pineapple perhaps or a fresh spinach salad topped with strawberries and almonds. (Write in your favorite).

By living worthy now, being selective and holding out for the best you’ll attract your fantastic high-quality man.

Love, 

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